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May
14
2013

Have you noticed a bit of a snack epidemic in the toddler world? Snacks at the grocery store, snacks while watching a show, snacks at play group, snacks after the soccer game, snacks at story time. With so many snacks, it’s no wonder they aren’t as willing to finish a meal or try new foods–hunger may not be a feeling with which they’re entirely familiar. The snacks they are offered aren’t always healthy snacks, which makes it difficult to keep track of just how much sugar is being consumed. Chances are–too much!

“Our children are being offered food at every turn. And adding just one extra snack each day can make a big impact. In fact, it’s possible that childhood obesity is driven by as little as 165 extra calories a day for kids ages 2 to 7, say researchers at both Harvard and Columbia universities. That’s roughly the amount in a handful of potato chips.” –Yoni Freedhoff, M.D.

Then there’s the etiquette of snacking. Isn’t it still a rule of thumb that in a group situation, if you don’t have one for all, then it’s rude to eat in front of others? And what about public places like the library or the museum? Shouldn’t we keep food and drinks confined to eating areas out of consideration for keeping things clean and neat for all?

“Toddlers and preschoolers can go two to three hours between meals and snacks, older kids three to four. As much as you can, avoid on-the-go snacks — in the car and the stroller, in the shopping cart, or as you’re going out the door. Grazing this way makes it harder for kids to eat the right amount because they’re so distracted. Mindless eaters don’t have the chance to really savor food or pay attention to their body’s hunger or fullness signals, so they often end up over- or under eating.” –Sally Kuzemchak, R.D

While most pediatricians will tell you that a toddler will eat when they’re hungry, the key is offering wholesome food at designated times, and in designated eating places. Food needs to be eaten when it’s offered, or if they choose not to eat it, then their next opportunity to eat is at the next offering. Popcorn in the family room for a movie should be a treat, not a rule.

“‘One small sweet treat a day can help teach kids about balance and to not see sweets as forbidden foods that become even more alluring.” –Kathy Isoldi, Ph.D., R.D.

Ultimately, we want them to make independently healthy food choices. A good at-home exercise: Put up a food pyramid poster and let kids put a sticker on the food group they are eating, if it’s not a real food, no sticker! Kids and parents can see what they’re actually eating and drinking.

There can be a lot of social pressure for children to behave in certain situations, but ultimately, we all know that children are children and comforting them with food is not a healthy choice. Extreme situations call for extreme measures (read: plane trip) but as a daily practice, we ALL could probably use a little snack smarts!

graphic credit: Parents Magazine

graphic credit: Parents Magazine

This post brought to you by Jenny Leggett, who needs to get her own food chart and stickers–is there an app for that?

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May
07
2013

Children are born with the natural ability to appreciate a task that needs to be accomplished and to see the steps to complete it with a smile on their little faces. Not so much, right? Chores for children can sometimes become a chore in itself for parents. It’s a basic character builder, though, and a [...] Read more

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Those seagulls from Finding Nemo always make me laugh. They have one thing on the brain: themselves. As for our children, from about 2-7 years old, they are a lot like the seagulls: egocentric. Egocentrism refers to the child’s inability to see a situation from another person’s point of view. The child assumes that other [...] Read more

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Apr
22
2013

When Caroline doesn’t want to take a nap…she goes to her door, takes off her pants, and slides them under the door into the hallway…as some sort of signal to me, I guess? I’m just thankful it’s only the pants. –Miss Jenni, Mom and Kindermusik Educator. Nap time. Quiet time. Rest time. Book time. Whatever [...] Read more

Are your children allowed to make bad choices? This is a question that I’ve been mulling over for the past few days. It occurred to me with our almost 15-year old. The consequences for bad choices are greater at this age, and it is also that much harder to allow them to fail, follow-thru with [...] Read more

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Dec
17
2012

Christmas is not a time nor a season, but a state of mind. To cherish peace and goodwill, to be plenteous in mercy, is to have the real spirit of Christmas. –Calvin Coolidge Christmas eve was a night of song that wrapped itself about you like a shawl. But it warmed more than your body, [...] Read more

Are you sleeping, Brother John? Poor Baby Brother, he gets dragged to every dance class and gets no activity that is “his!” And poor Baby Sister, how many times in and out of the car seat does she go? Between Preschool, the grocery store, soccer practice…Let’s face it, Baby Brother craves one-on-one with Mama and [...] Read more

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Robert and I recently returned from a short vacation. We knew “everyone” had an iPad but had no idea the extent to which this modern miracle has truly become ubiquitous. On the plane, at the pool, even used as a camera–they’re everywhere! Yes, they are everywhere, especially in the hands of very, very young children. Now I’m [...] Read more

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Okay, let’s play the word association game. When I say “dentist,” QUICK! what word comes to mind? Ouch? Uh-oh? Why don’t I floss more often? This is going to be expensive? As adults, we’ve had more years to have more dental experiences. Some may have been less than positive, but hopefully, as parents, we have [...] Read more

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Sep
17
2012

I got to see my sister and her family in Phoenix this last week and loved every minute with them all! Their children are 4 1/2 years old, and just-turned-one year old! My babies had the nerve to get big, but when I’m with my youngest sister and her little ones, it’s so fun to [...] Read more

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